DEVELOP A STRONG RELATION BET^ YOU AND YOUR CHILDREN!
HOW TO DEVELOP GOOD RELATION BETWEEN PARENT AND CHILD? :-
Hello friends I am going to share How to develop a strong bonding between you and your child. . Every parent want to become their kids successful but the question is Are they give perfect analysis and time to their Children to built their life successfully? Why here is the question mark. . Yes it is because there are many parents who think they are perfect! As per my childhood, pre-teen and teen age experiences going to share how to develop your relation with your kids after all you are the parent you only use to decide how is the life you are going to give to your kids not decided by others.
So let's start from the value of Time!
In today's generation specially in our 21st century we can observe the lack of communication between parent and child. There are many reason like mostly the parent are either father or mother both are working and busy in their jobs. And the other side the growing Kids they have many things to entertainment them like Television, videogames, computers, the biggest problem which looks small but it may create huge big problems as for health and brain and with it very dangerous but helpful too Internet. Even the children also not concentrate on their routine properly because of smartphones it cause to make near who is far and to get far who is near.
But actual problem is the communication which is lacking between parent and child. Everyone earning in the family but still there is no bonding no anxiety for the family members. Money for use & people for love but generation take it as opposite!
Let's talk about the bottom first, when a new baby born in a family, then what happen specially in modern society? Surely mother is a working, ok she was taken maternity leave and after 2-3-4 months she will be back to work and baby goes to custody of nanny. Think about it! People not afford expenditures of their old parent but for sure nanny because of they are busy, but in some case it's happend instead of the place of unknown nanny people ok to give responsibility to their parent only. . A bit of ok. . But when the small baby hold the hand for walk and talk to others is it possible they will grow with the attachement of their parent? Hmm, let once think of it!
It is ok the parent may working but when you were decide for your parenthood the responsibilities should be your's only. Because whatever the input, output is same as well.
When a baby start his/her life's journey they want to be you there when they wake and when going to sleep. Is it there is a bonding between parent and child is correct in today's period? In some cases the children is more attached with their granny grandpa or nanny more than their parent. Take out your time and make good memories with them. It not too hard afterall they are your's.
Here, from below a video where we can see how sweetly the father tackle to his both cute kid's fighting i.e; video is in punjabi language from india.
And then come on the 2nd stage which is Pre-teen journey from 6years to 12years of kids. There are many parent who don't know the truth i.e; 90% of brain development already happened at the age of 5 years. Wow shocking, but the pre-teen stage of your child is sensitive stage. Try to understand them, and mostly try to read their face. So many things are there which they may be hide infront of you or due to any reason. Parent need to question to them like what happen to whole day with them in school, tution or play ground? And the important thing give attention to them when they want to speak with you, it may be find some serious issues behind their silence or stammer voice, pauses.
In the pre-teen stage there are really susceptibility, where child can't understand how to disclose anything with their parent! Some child targeted by their teachers in school or tutions sometime misbehave, harrasment cases are occur in different ways, It may leave a tarrific mark for ever and weak them in inside. Don't be much strict with them, make yourself for them like a best friend whom they find actually. Don't insult them infront of anyone, if they behave wrong in crowd, separate them teach alone with calmly. It is ok they are kids but they also have their own prestige which hurt to insulting them, which may takes place in their mind corner for long period. Make your routine to give your 2-3 hrs.in daily basis in playground or to help them in their studies, and built a believe in them forstudies it not just a work to finish. . But books are your best friend who give you a better knowledge to survive and being successful as craft or creativity. It plays a big roll.
Make friendship with you child instead of arguments, spend time, laugh with them. Don't compare with them to the neighbours or their friends, it may spoil their friendship, give attention to them. . Give praise to them on their efforts, it built their self - confidence. . Motivate them which create a trust between you both, afterall you are parent not their enemy may you harsh or rude behaviour is make their weakness and they stop to shares anything with you.
Don't talk vulgur or argumental things infront of your child. . Don't drink or smoke infront of them, it attract soon to the teen-agers.
However, upto the pre-teen kids you can't give money to them, if he has any demand directly you can fulfill by the things but here for teen-agers you need to start to give pocket money to them with a blank notebook, and tell them wherever they spend or use this money, use to plan and give the details in that notebook which is really amazing thing, which create a habbit in them and they knows the value of money, and may next month of pocket they utilize only for the correct place. Understand them the value of savings even though a kid belongs from a rich family, they has to be understand the parent's efforts for earning. You need to realize they have full of space in their life to do works according to them, but there is a corner of your inside who noticed their all activities and their habbits, and the moment where they may fall down you need to give your hand to hold them.
There is a dialogue i remember my mom always said that parent gives birth love & care to their children, but at last the good deeds or bad deeds only depend on the children what they select! ! Actual things as a parent you people try to give all efforts behind your children by financially and emotionally but it is not enough, The main thing is "Trust" which creates everything, if you are unable to provide everything as financially, but the values of cultures and humanity with trust which definitely built a genuine person to the children. Trust for anything from inside to outside like to praise to them for the behaviors, studies, in careers like anything. How can you get a positive child with your negative behaviour! ! Be good, be genuine with them, and then only you can proudly say "Like Parent Like Children". . All the very best to all the parent, I hope this is a useful blogg to every parent and after read this not only think to do as like that even they definitely apply in real life. Thank you for your valuable time.
Hello friends I am going to share How to develop a strong bonding between you and your child. . Every parent want to become their kids successful but the question is Are they give perfect analysis and time to their Children to built their life successfully? Why here is the question mark. . Yes it is because there are many parents who think they are perfect! As per my childhood, pre-teen and teen age experiences going to share how to develop your relation with your kids after all you are the parent you only use to decide how is the life you are going to give to your kids not decided by others.
So let's start from the value of Time!
In today's generation specially in our 21st century we can observe the lack of communication between parent and child. There are many reason like mostly the parent are either father or mother both are working and busy in their jobs. And the other side the growing Kids they have many things to entertainment them like Television, videogames, computers, the biggest problem which looks small but it may create huge big problems as for health and brain and with it very dangerous but helpful too Internet. Even the children also not concentrate on their routine properly because of smartphones it cause to make near who is far and to get far who is near.
But actual problem is the communication which is lacking between parent and child. Everyone earning in the family but still there is no bonding no anxiety for the family members. Money for use & people for love but generation take it as opposite!
Let's talk about the bottom first, when a new baby born in a family, then what happen specially in modern society? Surely mother is a working, ok she was taken maternity leave and after 2-3-4 months she will be back to work and baby goes to custody of nanny. Think about it! People not afford expenditures of their old parent but for sure nanny because of they are busy, but in some case it's happend instead of the place of unknown nanny people ok to give responsibility to their parent only. . A bit of ok. . But when the small baby hold the hand for walk and talk to others is it possible they will grow with the attachement of their parent? Hmm, let once think of it!
It is ok the parent may working but when you were decide for your parenthood the responsibilities should be your's only. Because whatever the input, output is same as well.
When a baby start his/her life's journey they want to be you there when they wake and when going to sleep. Is it there is a bonding between parent and child is correct in today's period? In some cases the children is more attached with their granny grandpa or nanny more than their parent. Take out your time and make good memories with them. It not too hard afterall they are your's.
Here, from below a video where we can see how sweetly the father tackle to his both cute kid's fighting i.e; video is in punjabi language from india.
And then come on the 2nd stage which is Pre-teen journey from 6years to 12years of kids. There are many parent who don't know the truth i.e; 90% of brain development already happened at the age of 5 years. Wow shocking, but the pre-teen stage of your child is sensitive stage. Try to understand them, and mostly try to read their face. So many things are there which they may be hide infront of you or due to any reason. Parent need to question to them like what happen to whole day with them in school, tution or play ground? And the important thing give attention to them when they want to speak with you, it may be find some serious issues behind their silence or stammer voice, pauses.
In the pre-teen stage there are really susceptibility, where child can't understand how to disclose anything with their parent! Some child targeted by their teachers in school or tutions sometime misbehave, harrasment cases are occur in different ways, It may leave a tarrific mark for ever and weak them in inside. Don't be much strict with them, make yourself for them like a best friend whom they find actually. Don't insult them infront of anyone, if they behave wrong in crowd, separate them teach alone with calmly. It is ok they are kids but they also have their own prestige which hurt to insulting them, which may takes place in their mind corner for long period. Make your routine to give your 2-3 hrs.in daily basis in playground or to help them in their studies, and built a believe in them forstudies it not just a work to finish. . But books are your best friend who give you a better knowledge to survive and being successful as craft or creativity. It plays a big roll.

And at Last where u need to give more attention on them it is the dangerous stage a child called "Teen-age". They are mostly confused, what is right and what is wrong? They want to take their own decision. Sometimes they realize they are enough grown to do any work or sometimes they feels no something is missing to learn now also. There are harmonal changes which create many changes in their behaviour, which may parent also not identify easily. Teen-age is the stage where a person not count in adult and not in child completely. . May they not like to talk much, sometimes behave rude, like to sit alone. Many secrets which they not may want to disclose with their parents about they have feeling to their opposite-gender. Parent should must be alert they not have to control there feelings because it create revolt feeling against their parent. This is the period where you need to built a trust between them you only the best friend for them with whom they can share anything, which saves Them to fall in bad friendship. Many arguments happen between them but you need to ignore all worst and look at the positive phase of relation.
Don't talk vulgur or argumental things infront of your child. . Don't drink or smoke infront of them, it attract soon to the teen-agers.
However, upto the pre-teen kids you can't give money to them, if he has any demand directly you can fulfill by the things but here for teen-agers you need to start to give pocket money to them with a blank notebook, and tell them wherever they spend or use this money, use to plan and give the details in that notebook which is really amazing thing, which create a habbit in them and they knows the value of money, and may next month of pocket they utilize only for the correct place. Understand them the value of savings even though a kid belongs from a rich family, they has to be understand the parent's efforts for earning. You need to realize they have full of space in their life to do works according to them, but there is a corner of your inside who noticed their all activities and their habbits, and the moment where they may fall down you need to give your hand to hold them.
There is a dialogue i remember my mom always said that parent gives birth love & care to their children, but at last the good deeds or bad deeds only depend on the children what they select! ! Actual things as a parent you people try to give all efforts behind your children by financially and emotionally but it is not enough, The main thing is "Trust" which creates everything, if you are unable to provide everything as financially, but the values of cultures and humanity with trust which definitely built a genuine person to the children. Trust for anything from inside to outside like to praise to them for the behaviors, studies, in careers like anything. How can you get a positive child with your negative behaviour! ! Be good, be genuine with them, and then only you can proudly say "Like Parent Like Children". . All the very best to all the parent, I hope this is a useful blogg to every parent and after read this not only think to do as like that even they definitely apply in real life. Thank you for your valuable time.
Written by:- Sanaa Singh
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